31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero - Days 17 - 31

October is over and so is the challenge! Days 17-31 were packed with some great ideas for avoiding spending. A few highlights...

Day 17 - Free Halloween Costumes: I was certain that my daughter would insist on a Disney Princess costume for Halloween this year; however, when I suggested she make use of her dress up clothes and go as a fairy princess she was all for it! While I certainly can't guarantee that children will always be this agreeable, I think often times we adults assume our children want store bought things when they're already happy with what they have.

Day 22 - Sell your stuff: If you're in need of some extra cash take some time to look around and see what's worth selling. You'd be amazed at what people will buy. Even odd little nick-knacks can fetch a few bucks on e-bay. It adds up quick!

Day 25 - Try Bartending (ooops Bartering): Okay, when I was doing the challenge I misread this one. It's supposed to be bartering, but my eyes read "bar tending" (I was thinking they made a typo and formed it as one word). Anyways....I like both. 

Let's start with bar tending. Now I'm not much of a alcohol drinker, but I am a big drinker of coffee and coffee related beverages. Now if you're like me you know that buying these beverages can be a major budget buster. Unfortunately espresso machines are not cheap. There are however some great alternatives. At my house we use a Bialetti Moka Express Espresso maker that can be used on the stove top and purchased usually for less than $50. This along with  a wand-type milk frother, which can be found for less than $10, has saved us a lot of money. Want the coffee shop atmosphere? Turn off the TV, throw on some jazz or acoustic music and dim the lights. Voila!

Now for bartering.... I like bartering because not only can you save some money but it's also social and can be very rewarding. I've had several great bartering experiences. I once traded snow tires for a Nintendo Wii. Last year I dog sat in exchange for having an antique doll house refurbished. More recently I traded my old saxophone for a really nice electric piano. If I hadn't arranged these barters I'm fairly certain I would not have the electric piano, and the dollhouse would likely still be in disrepair (I since donated the Wii). 

Day 27 - Free Family Activities - This is one of my favorites because it echos one of my top pieces of advice which is, instead of buying something - do something! Whether it's a quiet day at home, playing games, going on a hike, bike riding, or finding a local event with free admission there are many ways we can have fun simply by spending time together. Mall dwelling should mostly be avoided. Shop when you actually need something, not as something to do!

Day 30 - Plan for the Holidays - Thanksgiving and Christmas are fast approaching, and if you're like most of us that means some inevitable expenses. Everyone feels differently about the appropriate amount to spend during this time of year, so I'm not going to get into a lecture about what you should or should not buy. The important thing is that we make a plan. Make a list or mark on a calendar what will be purchase, when and the estimated cost. If you're hosting Thanksgiving start buying the non-perishables now. Appropriate planning will help reduce a lot of unnecessary stress and allow us to enjoy this festive time of year.

A special thanks to the Living Well, Spending Less blog for this fantastic challenge!

Be Well,

- Nicole

31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero - Day 16

Days 8-16 of the challenge were primarily about cleaning and organizing. I am a big fan of cleaning and organizing as part of a holistic financial wellness plan. It can be easy to forget what is shoved in the back of closets. As an example my daughter has become really interested in board games recently. Remembering that we had some board games collecting dust we took a trip down to the basement where she found the game "Clue". Would you believe it had never even been played?!? I don't even remember how we came to acquire it! Thus something that was collecting dust became a found treasure for my daughter.

It can be easy to have a knee jerk reaction to run out and buy a new game, toy, piece of clothing etc without stopping to take stock of what we already have. What about you? Have you ever been cleaning or organizing and been thrilled to find something you forgot you had?

31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero - day 7

Ok, so maybe I won't post every day. Anyways, I'm back to post about my family's progress toward the zero spending goal. So far it's going very well. I don't have any non-essential spending to report. We did end up doing a rather large grocery shopping on Saturday at the club store we belong to, but that being said we stayed focus on buying only essential ingredients and avoided snack food and beverages.

Day 4: The homework for day 4 was, "plan a meal swap" with the main focus being to cook in bulk. We don't really have anyone locally that we can practically do this with, so we opted to not participate in the swap but definitely did take on the recommendation of cooking in bulk. We've done this before and we're always glad we did. It's also one of the reasons we went to the club store. on Day 4. We stocked up on large quantities of meat and produce which facilitated the created of several portions of Potato Leek Soup, Shepherd's Pie and Pot Roast with fixings. What I liked best was that last night instead of rushing through making dinner I was able to come home, pop the pre-made Shepherd's Pie into the oven and then enjoy a game of Candy Land with my daughter. Not to mention there was far less clean-up after dinner.

Day 5: Day 5 was "eat out at home" day. We haven't done this yet, but I definitely plan on trying the home made Frapucinos!

Day 6: Day 6 was "get a free education" day. This goes back to my #1 money saving tip - "instead of buying something, do something. Personally, I'm working on building my skills on the two musical instruments I play. I'm also taking some time to brush up on my industry knowledge using the free classes available on Coursera. My husband will be back out in the woods hunting next week. Whatever it is, whether the re-invigoration of a once favored pass time or taking up something new by not wasting our days shopping we will find that we have much more time to build more fruitful skills.

Day 7: Day 7 is for "Week 1 Reflection". So far it's going really well. Personally, I'm not a big shopper to begin with. I loath shopping actually, but there are still silly little ways we all waste money even if we're not mall dwellers. I think for my family the biggest realization was that we have to do a better job meal planning, and also to stay away from the coffee shops. We love our mochas, but not enough for them to be a line item on our budget.

The next two days are all about cleaning the house. While I appreciate the gesture, the author of the blog hosting this clearly does not work a 9-5 like I do. Hauling out the house in the middle of the week doesn't exactly fit my lifestyle. So, I'm going to work that in where it works best for me. My husband and I actually did a pretty big cleaning a couple of weeks ago, so I might come up with some alternatives for the next couple of days. Stay tuned!

Be Well,
- Nicole

31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero - day 3

I know I said I would post every day and have already missed a day, but in all fairness I was down for the count yesterday with a bad head cold and didn't have the brainpower to formulate a blog post. I'm back on track though and ready to move forward with the challenge. Here's a a bit of a recap.

Day 1 - Went very well. We did send the dog to dog daycare, but if you knew my dog you would know that is a necessity. If he doesn't go at least once a week he becomes impossible. Some might disagree, but I'm calling that a necessity.

Total unnecessary spending - $0

Day 2 - Could have been better. I mindlessly bought some ice cream and a bone for my dog, both which were certainly not necessities. Especially considering I have all the ingredients for brownies and/or a variety of cookies at home if I really wanted something sweet. 

Total unnecessary spending - $8.18

Today - Today is going well. There is one major thing I should mention, however. My husband is buying a new truck today. It's something we have been going back and forth on for a while. He really needs it for his line of work and as much as we have tried to make due with our current vehicles, the time has come for him to make this purchase. To be fair though, we began researching and arranging this before we knew about the challenge so I'm giving us a pass on this. 

Now the homework for yesterday was to clean out the pantry and today's assignment was to do some meal planning. I will be working on both of those tonight. This part is especially interesting to me because I think a lot of people have the misconception that eating well is expensive. I joke, however, that my husband and I ate the healthiest when our income was at it's lowest. When we were first married I was a full time college student. We spent a good amount of time living primarily on oatmeal, beans, cheddar cheese, vegetables and rice. It's actually amazing how many great recipes you can make with these simple foods as a base. Not to mention that your wallet and waistline will thank you for it.

So that's my task over the next 24 hours. Go through the cabinets and see what's for dinner this week. While I don't keep a lot of back stock, I know I have an abundance of dried beans that are waiting to be cooked up. Off the top of my head I'm thinking I have the fixings for Potato Leek Soup, Mung Dal, Vegetarian Chili, Beans, Rice & Tomato (one of my favorite budget meals) and Shttp://www.livingwellspendingless.com/31-days/livingwellspendingzero/paghetti. I'll update tomorrow and let you know if I find any surprises!

Be Well!

- Nicole

What Ruth Said - 31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero

31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero

Whoa, where did September go? I've been very busy with a host of projects over the last few weeks. My jaw dropped when I realized I hadn't posted since August! That being said, sometimes when life becomes hectic it becomes easy to let our guard down when it comes to our personal financial habits. So, I'm taking the month of October to re-evaluate and re-prioritize using the "31 Days of Living Well and Spending Zero" challenge from "Living Well Spending Less".

I will be posting daily using Ruth's daily prompts. Today involves setting ground rules. We all have different definitions about what is "essential spending" and there may some things that we're already committed to that will involve some "non-essential spending". For example, being a parent of a pre-schooler I will have some costs associated with Halloween. I'm also part of a wedding party in early November that will result in some expenses. That being said, I can still step back and look closely at each related purchase and make an effort to do it as inexpensively as possible.

We'll see how it goes. Check it out and stay tuned!

Be Well,
Nicole

Simple Ways to Save Today!

I thought I'd go with something quick and to the point today - simple ways to save. None of this is likely to be new, but we can all use reminders. It's easy to mindlessly spend. Occasionally we all need some motivation to put those credit cards away. So what should we be doing?

STOP Window Shopping:
Many of us waste time roaming the malls or browsing online at the latest cell phones, cars, clothes, books, etc. We might think that there is no harm in it, but trust me, marketing is an incredibly powerful tool to those who know how to use it well. If you browse you will want to spend. So, unless there is something you're truly interested in purchasing, stop window shopping! There are far better things we can do to fill our time.

Revisit What You Have:
Most of us having things lying around that at one time we had to have, but that's now collecting dust. Some common ones are exercise equipment, video game systems, hobby kits, musical instruments, golf clubs, bicycles etc. If we're looking for something new to entertain ourselves, why not revisit something we already invested in?

Buy Used:
There are very few things I have in my house that are new. As much as possible I buy what I can second hand, especially furniture.

Scout Online For Clothes:
I rarely shop for clothes in the store. There are tons of savvy shopper out there who have made a business for themselves by purchasing and reselling clothes on e-Bay. I can usually find brand name tops and pants for a fraction of what they cost in the store. The trick is to find brands that you know fit consistently so there is no worry about returns. Not a fan of e-Bay? Even regular retailers most often offer their best deals and selection through their online clearance sections. I always recommend checking these out before heading to the store. Not to mention what you'll save in time and gas!

Eat Real Food:
This one helps your wallet and your waste line. My husband and I have always joked that when we were first married, the poorer we were the better we ate. To us things like soda, cookies, beer & wine, and other snack foods were always viewed as a treat that we often did not have room for in our budget. As an affect we got out of the habit of buying many of these items. Yet it seems that many people just take these items as "must-haves" on their shopping list. I'm not saying you have to be a health nut, just consider the cost of this habit.

Plan Meals:
A big trouble spot in my budget has always been eating out. When life gets busy, the first thing that usually gets sacrificed is meal planning and grocery shopping. It takes time, but making a point to go through the flyers and make a shopping list that includes everything you'll need to get through the week will be well worth the time. A great tool to help with this is www.emeals.com. I've used e-meals off and on over the years. It's a great way to get in the habit of meal planning and also to try out new recipes. It's a fantastic system and a huge time saver!

Plan Backyard Adventures:
You don't have to go on an exotic vacation to have a good time. There are often times dozens of things to do within our own communities or just a short drive away. Instead of focusing on expensive vacations, see what's available locally or as a weekend getaway.

Mindful Spending

Defining Necessity

I remember talking to my grandmother once about her childhood and what life was like. At one point she made the observation that if a family lived today the way her family did, they would probably be considered poor. They did not have television or computers. They didn't eat out, have cell phones or go on elaborate vacations. Yet they certainly didn't consider themselves poor.

We have to consider how much our definition of necessity has changed. The average family budget has a lot more line items than it did even just 25 years ago. Yet it seems that most of us never stop to think about these additions and what really improves our lives. Instead, we just sign up because that’s the status quo.

Homework time!

I want you to write up a quick list of all of your discretionary expenses. These are those items which are not necessities but are paid on a regular monthly basis. We’re looking for items like cable, internet, cell phones, gaming subscriptions, gym subscriptions, club fees, memberships, etc.  Don’t worry about coming up with exact figures for how much you spend on each, just a rough number is fine.

Now think about something that you have wanted to buy or do. Take a look at that list. Do you really want those things as much as you want whatever it is you think you have not been able to afford?

This is all about mindful spending. We spend hundreds of dollars a month on services and subscriptions that may not even be that meaningful to us. Are people going to laugh at you because you downgraded from a smart phone to a flip-phone or dump cable? From experience I can tell you that yes, they probably will. But, if you’re finally are able to budget in that yoga class, you’ll have the last laugh!

The bottom line is, when we start appropriating our money to the things and experiences we actually want we often find we are better off then we may have realized. We were just nickel and diming ourselves in all the wrong places!

Practical Stuff - Quarterly Propserity Check

With the first three months of the year behind us, now is a great time to take a look at how we're doing managing our money thus far. Why now? Most businesses review financial data quarterly. It's a cycle that works well as it is not so frequent as to become tedious, but is often enough to keep us on track.

The first items I recommend looking at are reoccurring expenses. These are things like housing costs, utilities, car payments, child care costs, etc. Really take some time to make sure your list is complete. Everything that you are regularly billed for that has a due date should be on this list. For examples, see the quarterly budget review tab on the home page.

The next step is to take this total and compare it to your net monthly income. This is the amount that you actually receive after any deductions like taxes, health insurance and 401(k). How is it looking? Do you have a lot of money left over and you're scratching your head, wondering where it's going? Or, do you have more bills then you thoughts and are running a deficit? 

If you find that you have a deficit: First and foremost, don't give up! Many of us have been there. The first thing you'll want to do is go line by line and see what can be eliminated or negotiated. Are you paying for a land line and a cell phone? Have you shopped your insurance recently? Are you mindful of utility usage? Are you driving a vehicle that is beyond your means? Are you overpaying taxes? 

A lot of bills can be negotiated, such as insurance, cable and credit cards. If you rent, you may want to shop for a new apartment or look for a roommate. If you talk honestly with your friends, you might even find someone who's ready to take this journey with you. If you have a mortgage, talk to your mortgage company about options that may be available if you're struggling, but want to stay in your home. Or, depending on your level of equity, consider if continuing to live in your home still makes sense.

If you’re at a point where you’ve cut everything you can and you’re still struggling to meet basic necessities like food and housing, there is no shame is seeking out assistance if you really need it. In this situation it may be best to contact your local social services office to see if you are eligible for any benefits that will help you get back on your feet.

If you find you have money left over: You may be surprised that you have more expendable income then you realized. This goes back to mindful spending. You might not even think of yourself as a big spender, but a few nights out, buying lunch every day or a latte addiction can really eat away at your bank account. Or maybe you are a big spender who has that next big ticket item all picked out as soon as payday comes. Either way, we're going to need to dig into the day to day spending to determine where that money is going. It's not that this spending is bad necessarily, but it needs to be understood.

There are a few ways you can do this. If you're like most people and use a debit card. You can use a software program like Quicken or web/app based programs like Mint or Mvelopes which will quickly pull data from your accounts and categorize it so you can get a nice visual snapshot of where your money is going. Another option would be to go through your bank statements and manually sort out your spending. Some online banking systems offer sorting options to help make this task easier. If you don't want to deal with learning new software, or if you don't use a debit card, you can make up spreadsheet to estimate and list out your more variable expenses.

Once you have all of your financial data laid out some obvious patterns and waste will likely emerge. From here we want to enter a four part action plan.

1.    Reflect - Think back on the topics we have discussed and reflect on what areas most reflect your spending behavior.

2.    Budget - You can make a budget using a number of different methods, electronic or otherwise. Whatever system works best for you is fine.

3.    Track - I also recommend a checklist for your bills where you can easily keep track of what has been paid and what is outstanding to help avoid overdue payments and nasty late fees. For day to day spending, I recommend Mint and Mvelopes, but even a simple notebook that you can keep with you is fine.

4.    Automate - Lastly, look at what payments can be automated. For most of us coming up with money for items like taxes and health insurance are a non-issue because the money is taken out of our paychecks before we even see it. The best way to start is with smaller bills and those which provide a discount for automated payments. You may want to consider opening a separate checking account where the amount needed to cover these items is segregates from our other money to avoid overdrawing your account.

Let’s talk more about checking accounts. I actually recommend having two to three checking accounts; one for bills (two if you maintain separate funds for automated payments) and one for daily spending. In fact, it’s best if we don’t even keep a debit card for the account set up for bills. By separating out the amount we have allotted for daily spending we are less likely to dip into those funds.

If you're ready to start a savings plan it's best it’s best to open a savings account at a place other than where we keep our checking account. At the least we should avoid having our savings and checking accounts linked together to prevent us from making transfers on a whim. This may all seen a bit overwhelming, but it can also be very empowering. By taking ownership of our current financial situation we control our money instead of allowing it to control us. When we document our bills and spending we can stop walking around with financial stress rattling around in our heads all of the time. Did I pay this? Do I have enough money for that? By writing it all out we know exactly where we're at. Even if our financial situation is not great, I promise that just getting rid of those nagging thoughts will be a relief.

For further reading I recommend "Financial Peace" and "The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey. His radio show is fantastic as well and very motivating. His blunt style can take some getting used to, but his advice is simple, practical and solid. Also, "The Automatic Millionaire" by David Bach. This book dives more into the benefits of automating our finances as much as possible. The These books have been out for a while so they're readily available through libraries or as second hand copies.

I will be setting up a page specific to budget work as a reference to help you get started. The more budget work you do will help determine what systems work best for you. The most important thing though is to be honest with yourself and follow through. At the same time, even if you find you don't stick to the plan you set up, keep trying. Just having quarterly check-ups can help us from spinning out of control.

Be Well!
-Nicole